I won't go any further with this because I don't really like to talk about things that can't happen.
However, what if we could date/be with several people. This would essentially enable us to have everything we possibly wanted. Of course my boyfriend wouldn't go for this but imagine if our partners didn't have to worry about their flaws because someone else could fill in. It's like working on a team to ultimately complete a specific task or goal. I think it would be cool to stop asking my boyfriend to be affectionate...I wish I could just call random person X to fill in when he can't provide certain things.
I know some of you are reading this and thinking that it wouldn't work. I guess there is the argument that this would lead to break-ups because what happens when random person X satisfies you more than your actual partner. Actually, none of you could be thinking or reading any of this because I don't give anyone the link to my blog lol. In fact, most of my friends don't even know that I have a blog.
What if there was an agreement? Random person X could ONLY do what your partner wouldn't. Nothing more, nothing less. Maybe each random person could only fulfill at the most two things.
What the hell is a perfect partner anyways? Is it someone who fulfills all of your needs? Is it a person who fulfills 75% of your needs? Is it a person who makes you happy most of the time? Is it a person whose flaws you are ok with? How do I know that I have found my perfect partner? Is there a way to feel your partner is perfect? Is it stupid to even use the words perfect and relationship in the same sentence?
This is just a little food for thought...Happy Sunday!
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